Find the Perfect Man -- with Science
Learn the kiss that will make him yours.
By Melanie Strunk
NEWSFLASH! Women looking for the perfect man need search no further. A new report details what women must know. And science backs everything up.
Oh, and ladies, stop listening to the so-called red pill experts in the manosphere. This research shows men don’t want or require the superficial perfection many of these experts claim.
Instead, a so-called theory of love identifies intimacy, commitment and passion as the factors determining a relationship's success.
So, how do you get started? Simple!
Make him obsessed with only you. Learn more!
Give Him the Closeness He Desires
Men crave intimacy, both physical and emotional. Understand that, while you may not always need physical intimacy, he does.
Avoid putting your partner in a position in which he feels his needs are subordinate.
You crave communication. If he willingly participates by talking through feelings and your concerns, make sure you reciprocate.
Reach an agreement between you that his physical needs also must be met. On the other hand, remember, he requires empathy and a shoulder to cry on too.
Make sure you don’t fall into the trap of thinking physical intimacy is sufficient.
Your partner requires emotional intimacy as much as you do. See that you provide him with equal quantities of both.
Build greater intimacy in the bedroom!
Build on a Firm Foundation of Commitment
Avoid being vague about the nature of your connection. Remain clear about your intentions.
Make sure he knows he represents more than just a friendship or a brief hookup.
If you desire something long term, signal your interest unambiguously. Let him know you want a relationship, not something casual.
Build a firm foundation with communication. Discuss your plans for a future beyond the moment.
Avoid discussing happily ever after, marriage and kids from day one, of course! But make it obvious you hope to pursue something more permanent.
Use additional encounters to discuss where to take things physically and emotionally. Show you are interested in investing in the two of you as a couple.
Build unbreakable commitment with your man! Lean more.
Cement Your Relationship with Passion
Never allow the fire to go out. This represents an ongoing philosophy of maintaining and building.
Continue to create new passion by seeking out new ways to spice up what the two of you already have.
Look for ways to improve both in the bedroom and in the world interacting as a couple.
Remember, physical intimacy remains an important part of the equation. But understand there is much more to maintaining a successful relationship over time.
Stay on the lookout for new ways to stimulate interest. This means stimulation both in those long talks together and in those sexy times you have in private.
But know this! Maintaining a relationship long-term takes considerable work, effort and creativity.
Forget becoming comfortable. Who wants a comfortable relationship? No one, it turns out.
Commit to an ongoing learning curve. Make sure stale familiarity never creeps into your lives – or your bedroom!
And remember! Learning can be fun!
Master the skill that will drive him mad!
Conclusion
Forget the simple advice offered by so-called experts elsewhere on the Internet. No simple guide exists for a successful relationship.
To attract the perfect man and build the future you want requires time, attention and learning.
Make use of the resources provided by those who truly understand the psychology of men – and women.
Take time to master the skills necessary to become the woman your perfect man wants as a partner.
Then invest in growing that relationship and in the lifelong learning required to build intimacy, commitment and passion over time.
Find the reward in learning the skills necessary to attract and hold that perfect man and to build a future with him.
Ignore those who have already accepted all the negative mindsets leading to relationship failure.
Or those who make the case that these long-term relationships seem unrealistic – or that remaining alone holds some virtue.
Some people prefer to remain alone and for them this state of being offers its own benefits.
But understand that, if you want a relationship, there is nothing wrong with seeking one. Nor should you be ashamed of the efforts to which you willingly go to attain it.
We only get one life. Make sure you live yours to the fullest. If that involves finding the right man for you, make sure you do all you can to reach your goal.
Get the relationship you deserve. Find out how!
Melanie Strunk lives in Hatfield, Pa., writes about relationships, enjoys playing the ukulele and spends a good portion of her time “investing” in her relationship with her “perfect man” Steve.
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